![]() It seemed like dangerous stuff, in that it might actually work. (The cube represents the woman’s ego or something-so if it’s big, it means she’s self-confident if it’s transparent as opposed to opaque that means she’s open as opposed to guarded if it’s pink that means she’s bright and energetic … basic non-falsifiable horoscope-type material she can read herself into and then find you perceptive.) It was basically a way to harness people’s love of talking about themselves in order to score. student named Jon had mentioned The Game, and was demonstrating how it worked by means of “The Cube” routine, where you ask a woman to imagine a box standing in the desert, and you tell her about herself based on how she describes it. This book has sufficient psychological and social subtext to be of interest to psychiatrists, psychologists, and other mental health professionals, both as a diversion and perhaps as a warning of how boundary violations could begin.When Neil Strauss’s blockbuster book about pickup artistry came out a decade ago, I was a Midwestern ingenue in New York City, and I read it mostly as a defensive measure. Strauss is able to laugh at his own foibles as well as describe the despair that can come with a narrow or shallow approach to life. The journey is liberally sprinkled with cameo appearances by celebrities, like Heidi Fleiss, Tom Cruise, and Paris Hilton, to name a few, and both domestic and foreign exotic locales. Because of his new-found techniques, though, he finally finds one woman who is more than a conquest to him. The author goes from one guru to the next, perfecting his own style, and, in fact, he renames himself "Style." But by the end of the book, Strauss tires of The Game and does not like the way his new perspective has objectified women. Each guru has had to study the art of the pickup as a set of behaviors to be analyzed and reduced to a given formula that he can both use and teach to other "nerdy" types, as they are called, during weekend workshops. Strauss arranges to meet various instructor-mentors, the "gurus," from whom to learn along the way. The Game's goal is to be able to pick out a random "target" person in any setting, no matter how many competing companions are already present, and by virtue of the right combination of behaviors, body language, and words develop an attraction that ends with a phone number, a kiss, or the ultimate prize-a sexual encounter. The running thread throughout is the author's search for his own perfect pickup technique and for a sense of satisfaction in life. ![]() ![]() The book features a number of theories or "schools" of seduction. Although "men will deny it" and "women will doubt it," Strauss declares this to be a true story and asks that the reader blame not the players but The Game. The symbolism is intentional, as the book chapters are based on specific techniques and "moves" that form a "bible" of the art of seduction-how to "select a target," "approach and open," remove "the obstacles," "create an emotional connection," and so forth. ![]() The book has a thin, leather-like cover, gold lettering, and a bound-in ribbon bookmark, much like a Bible. The book The Game is another of Neil Strauss's biographies, but this book is partly autobiographical and a brief history of a group of self-styled "pickup artists"-people who essentially make a full-time career of trying to achieve multiple sexual conquests. ![]()
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